Here are some of the Pick-Up Artist Terminologies
that we use. Actually, there are more of these terms, but – it’s your
prerogative if you want to learn those stuffs. But, I recommend to you to try
this first to familiarize ‘coz you’ll always be dealing with this.
Acronym
|
Meaning
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Originator
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3 second-rule
|
The Three Second
Rule. Approaching a target within 3 seconds
of seeing her or of making eye contact. |
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7 hour-rule
|
This rule means that
you have to make-out with your target within 7 hours after you meet. (maybe
you talked for 1 hr on your first meet up. That counts 1 hr. that means, you
have 6hrs. left; you can still resume the 6hrs. on the next day that you will
meet again.
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*Mystery
|
AFC
|
Average Frustrated
Chump
|
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AI
|
Approach Invitation
|
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AI: Anti-AI
|
Either a conscious
or unconscious action by a woman to indicate
that she wants you to STAY AWAY. |
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AMOG
|
Alpha Male Other Guy
|
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Anchor
|
Associating an
emotional state or thought in a person’s mind
with one of the senses, such as with a touch or sound, or visual movement. Visually would be called a Spacial Anchor. Once an Anchor has been set it can be moved on a sliding scale to either amp-up or turn-down the state, by combing pattern language with changes to the anchor. This is a standard NLP term. |
Richard Bandler and
John Grinder
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ASD
|
Anti-Slut Defense
|
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ASF
|
alt.seduction.fast,
also known as uASF for Unmoderated ASF.
|
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Avatar
|
Your fashion/way of
clothing that looks attractive or fashionable
|
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BAFC
|
Below Average
Frustrated Chump
|
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BF
|
Boyfriend
|
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Bitch Shield
|
Contrary to how it
sounds, this is not used in a derogatory
manner. This is a barrier that women put up to prevent guys from hitting on her, and is usually implemented in higher intensity situations such as clubs. |
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C&F (also CF,
C/F)
|
Cocky and Funny
|
David DeAngelo
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CB
|
Cockblock
|
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Close
|
Could mean anything
from getting a phone number to getting
a lay. There are several derivatives; @close, #close, *close, !close, f close. |
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Close: !close
|
Fuck Close/ F close
|
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Close: #close
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Number Close/N Close
|
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Close: *close
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Kiss Close/KC
|
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Close: @close
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Email Close
|
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Day 2
|
Refers to the 2nd
day that you will meet up with your target.
|
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DDB
|
Doggy Dinner Bowl –
The look you get from a woman that is
either in trance or just in sexual state. |
Ross Jeffries
|
DHV
|
Demonstration of
Higher Value
|
*Mystery |
DLV
|
Demonstration of
Lower Value
|
*Mystery |
EC
|
Eye Contact
|
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EV
|
Eliciting Values,
although a standard NLP term, used as a
powerful part of Speed Seduction. |
Richard Bandler and
John Grinder
|
FB
|
Fuck Buddy/Fucking
Buddies
|
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FMAC
|
Find Meet Attract
Close – Earlier Mystery Model
|
Mystery
|
FR
|
Field Report
|
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FU
|
Fuck Up Report
|
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FUG
|
Fucking Ugly Girl
|
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GF
|
Girlfriend
|
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GM
|
Grand Master or
Gunwitch Method
|
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GWM
|
Gunwitch Method
|
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HB
|
Hot Babe
|
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HSE
|
High Self Esteem
|
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IOI
|
Indicator Of
Interest
|
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Kino
|
Kinesthetic – The
use of physical touching. The term comes
from NLP, and is a core part of Speed Seduction. |
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LDR
|
Long Distance
Relationship
|
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LR
|
Lay Report
|
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LSE
|
Low Self Esteem
|
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LTR
|
Long Term
Relationship
|
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mASF
|
Moderated ASF
|
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MLTR
|
Multiple Long Term
Relationships
|
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MM
|
Mystery Method
|
Mystery
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Mixed Set
|
Refers to a group of
people which is composed of boys and girls
|
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Neg or Neg Hit
|
Part of Mystery
Method in showing Active Disinterest. These
can range from sending your target little ambiguous comments to actual insults, depending upon the level of self esteem and social value of your target. Usually apllied as casual ambiguous comments that on one hand seem like a compliment but are actually the opposite. They convey that you are not sexally interested in the target, and are very effective while you build social value in her group of friends. |
Mystery
|
NLP
|
Neuro-Linguistic
Programming
|
Richard Bandler and
John Grinder
|
Obstacle
|
Other person who is
blocking your chances with your target,
or coupld potentially block you. |
Mystery
|
Oneitis or One-it is
|
Being obsessed with
only one woman, and thinking that she
is so special that no other girl will satisfy you. |
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ONS
|
One Night stand
|
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Opener
|
The first thing you
say when you approach a woman. Types
of Opener: Direct, Indirect, Opinion, etc.
|
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Pattern
|
Specifically
structured language to induce a desired emotional
state (or mood) in your target. |
Ross Jeffries
|
Pawn
|
A woman who is used
(unknowingly) to increase your social
value. They are created on the fly by gaming women who are not intended to be a target, so that you will be socially proofed in the eyes of others. |
Mystery
|
Peacocking
|
Refers to an
attractive item you wear that can caught anybody’s eyes; bracelets,
necklaces, boa’s, earrings, etc.
|
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Pivot
|
Similar to a Pawn
except that they already know you and are
either just friends or one of your MLTR’s. They may or may not be aware of their Pivot status. You can also create Pivots on the fly. |
Mystery
|
Player
|
Another term for a
PUA (Pick-Up Artist)
|
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PU
|
Pick-Up – Actually
picking up women or referring to the art
of pick-up. |
|
PUA
|
Pick-Up Artist
|
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RAFC
|
Recovering Average
Frustrated Chump
|
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RJ
|
Ross Jeffries – The
father of the seduction community with
Speed Seduction. |
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Sarge
|
Going out to meet
and seduce women. Created by Ross Jeffries
as a useful term used by Speed Seduction students, and now adopted by almost everyone in the seduction community. The term comes from the name of one of Ross’ previous cats. |
Ross Jeffries
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Set/s
|
Refer/s to a girl or
group of girls.
|
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SHB
|
Super Hot Babe
|
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Shit Test
|
Either used
consciously or unconsciously by women to test
a guy’s response, so that she can screen out guys based upon their attitude. |
Tyler Durden
|
Social Proof
|
A key element of the
psychology of influence based upon the
concept fo social value. There are certain things that you can do to increase your social value. For example you will be socially proofed if you are with several SHB’s that are completely into you. Or perhaps you are just the center of attention in a venue where you are well know |
Robert B. Cialdini
|
SOI
|
Statement Of Intent
or a Show Of Interest.
|
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SP (Self Point)
|
Self Point. This is
a form of anochoring states to you, as
used in Speed Seduction (a seduction application of NLP). |
Ross Jeffries
|
SP (Sticking Point)
|
Some area of your
game that is not giving you the right results.
|
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SS
|
Speed Seduction
|
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SS
|
Single Set
|
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Target
|
The woman that you
intend to seduce.
|
Mystery
|
Transition
|
Refers to the
changing of topic or telling a story
|
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uASF
|
Unmoderated ASF
|
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UG
|
Ugly Woman
|
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Wing or Wingman
|
Another PUA who
sarges with you, and ideally where you both
assist each other’s sarges and help improve your skills together. |
* Not sure reference:
askjdog.com
