I read this article from the Venusian Artists handbook of Mystery. After reading, I tried to reflect and rewind my past experience while having some conversation to a set and I proved that it is somehow correct.
Maybe you have tried Gaming a girl wherein she insists or keeps reminding you that she has a Boyfriend. There are some reasons to that. It is much better for PUA's to know these reasons so that you can still control the situation and lead to success.
Here are some of the reasons:
1. She doesn’t have a BF. She’s just saying that because she’s not attracted to you.
2. She does have really a BF. And chose to stick with that relationship.
3. She does have a BF, but she’s willing to sleep with you. She just
wants you to make sure you understand her situation first. She
might available to you when it comes to sex, but NOT in commitment.
4. She does a have a BF, but she’s willing to cheat on him (they
usually cheat if your game is tight), but she doesn’t want to feel
guilty about it. This is her rationalization process at work. As long as
she mentions she has a BF before she sleeps with you, she can
rationalize to herself that it was your “fault”. Surely, she might
regret it later, but it won’t stop her from cheating.
5. She doesn’t have a BF, and she is attracted to you. She just doesn’t
want to look like a loser who can’t get a man. Most HOT women have
orbiters anyway: nice guy who pose as her friend but secretly wants to
have sex with her. Since “boyfriend” has different meanings, she is
thinking one of her orbiters as a “place-keeper” when she makes this
statement.
I just want to remind you guys that it's up to you on how you will handle this situation, or if she tells you that she is committed to the other guy or maybe she's lying. The point is, you have these reasons just to be guided on what are some possible excuses that a woman should make. But, what's most recommended for PUA's is that never ask her of relationship status; let her open this topic and observe the signs that she's giving to you.
*reference Venusian Arts handbook
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